So I feel like i've been alive for quite some time now and i have a decent amount of life experience, with that in mind the past year or so I have come to the harsh reality that there are many people that I call "friends" aren't really my friends at all. In fact I have come to feel that they are more like wolves hiding in sheeps clothing pretending to be my friends. I feel that some ppl only want to be my friend bc they don't have any "real" friends themselves and are just simply bored with their lives and need someone to hang out with. One so called friend of mine (we'll call this person apple) only calls to hang out when no one else is around. I noticed this trend a few months back apple would call and try to set up a hang out such as dinner, or a night for drinks, etc. But apple was busy with everyday life just as most people have like work, and school which is understandable bc everyone has their own shit to do. However I find out via fb that apple who is apparently "too busy" to spend maybe 2 hours or so with me to have dinner but has enough time to see other friends and go on a few days trip to another state, isn't too busy to spend the entire day at theme parks with friends and even has enough time in their life to date and find a S.O. So here I am thinking wtf? this is your idea of being "too busy?" I just hate it when ppl put me on the backburner and call me at the last min to try and make plans when their original plans fall through and now they're bored.
I also hate friends who bitch and moan all goddam day long about their shitty life and their shitty bf who treats them like crap and doesn't pay attention to them and doesn't call them, etc, etc. it makes me wanna grab them and shake them and be like NEWS FLASH: HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU!!! I don't mind lending an ear to a friend in need but just don't bitch about your life 24/7 and not try to do anything about it. I mean if you hate your life and it sucks so bad that you gotta bitch about it all the time obviously something is wrong and something needs to change.
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